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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the PPs, above, I am a man, and I admit I have all those traits women value - tall, attractive, outspoken, charming, professionally successful, etc. And I raised the issue of sexual rejection repeatedly for years, like a decade. I bought the books (come as you are, etc), tried to articulate physical touch as my love language. I could give you 15 examples of being proactive and at least partially vulnerable with my wife.

And nothing changed. In fact, it got worse.

So my choices are: 1) remain faithful and miserable; 2) divorce and hurt the kids, our finances, social standing; or 3) find someone in a similar situation, stay married and sane and if I get caught, I am at worse where I would be with option 2.

tl;dr sometimes men do open up and still face rejection. Not all women who are cheated on are victims or blameless.[/quote]

Oh please. Get over yourself. So you tried, it failed. That happens to literally everybody, in every facet of life. This is the whole point of emotional vulnerability: you won't always get what you want. If you did, it wouldn't be vulnerable! Nobody who is advocating for men to have more emotional intelligence is saying it's going to be the solution to your problems. [/quote]

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