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DP but the twins are in different classrooms. Does the host even know the other twin? Why would the host child be expected to play with another kid at their house who they probably don't know well? From that perspective it is like any other sibling. If the kids were all in the same class maybe it would be different. And the b/g thing would give me pause. At that age my kids really only wanted to play with same sex friends, as did almost all of their friends.[/quote]

Yes, the other mom knows the twin. The OP said that the three kids have had playdates together. Both her kids see the other girl as a friend.

It could be that the other girl is not interested in playing with the boy twin but has been nice and done fine with both kids in the past. The twins read it as the girl is both of their friends and the other girl wants to be friends with just the girl twin.

OP is trying to navigate a difficult path because the twins see this child as a mutual friend and the boy is going to feel hurt. [/quote]

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