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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is so much contempt on DCUM toward women who decide that adultery is not a good enough reason to divorce.  It's kind of scary.  I'm not sure what drives it. I mean it's OK to decide you can't live with this, and it's OK to decide that you can.  It's a personal decision.  But I don't understand the venom directed at women who decided that they can. [/quote]

+1. I would hope that DH and I would try to work things out, make amends, and forgive if one of us cheated. I think our marriage and the life we have built is worth more than one mistake. So much about this is dependent on the situation surrounding the cheating that I don’t think it’s possible to say leaving or staying is always right in every scenario. [/quote]

Is one mistake a one night stand? Or do you consider a 3-year affair a one-time mistake; if it was one person/affair?

I think the latter was many different mistakes with an opportunity to stop prior to every single hook up, so I think that’s many mistakes.

But a true one time thing/night in a 30-year marriage would be crazy if everything else is good.  I am not so sure about an affair. That’s a lot more lying, a lot more sex a much larger betrayal.

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I’m the pp, married 15 years with 3 kids and I truly love DH. If it was a one night stand situation I would not leave him. A long affair, I don’t know? It would be so painful. I think it just depends heavily on the people and the situation when it comes to cheating and deciding to stay or leave. I don’t think leaving is the best choice in all scenarios. [/quote]

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