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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wife has virtually no interest in sex (at least with me), so I think about it all the time and have had opportunities, but I’m too old to deal with the possibility of blowing up my life and suffering financial harm. [b] I’d like to think that somewhere deeper down it has to do with a sense of loyalty to my wife,[/b] but I really don’t know if that’s a factor, as the other reasons are so acute.[/quote]

In the same situation, and I agree with this. It's hard to have loyalty, i.e. sexual fidelity with someone you aren't having sex with.

Only reason I don't cheat is fear of getting caught. I wouldn't feel guilty and I don't owe loyalty to someone who has sexually abandoned me.[/quote]

You should then talk to your spouse about that. You're lack of communication clearly says you're part of the problem! Or both get counseling. My DH cheated and there's no going back after that. In my mind he betrayed me to the hilt, and I treated him very well in all regards. He cheated himself out of having a partner that loves or cares about him. He stepped over a dollar to pick up a penny.[/quote]

Nope. No going back.  I was having sex, regularly.  But, he wanted to try variety at midlife with an old whore.[/quote]

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