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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Whew, I missed a lot. I was just curious. I do have a lawyer. I am moving forward as best as I can after 16 years so... please. I am doing what I need to do but this is still the other parent of my kids and so I am still questioning, still trying to anticipate what happens next, the likelihood that I will have to interact with AP in the future if she does stick around longer than expected (I do think it will end eventually; the number of red flags are truly astounding). Again, there are young kids who are being swept up into all kinds of chaos by this mess, so it isn't just a matter of walking away and that being that.[/quote] OP, this is 7:16. You and I are in the same boat - 16 year marriage, minor children, questioning things, wondering if the AP is going to be in my kids' lives someday. Wish we could talk IRL! [/quote] OP here. I would love to. Happy to create an email address to exchange info. If there is one thing I've been good at throughout this, it's building my village. Normally I have my spouse to fall back on in times of pain, but obviously now I can't. So for the first time in my life I am really making an effort to reach out for support. Because otherwise I drown.[/quote] If you two set up a mini support group, count me in. I am on the other side, divorced and done, but navigating having the AP in my kids' lives. [/quote]
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