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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, all I can say is that I completely sympathize with you.  I’m in the exact same boat with my DH, but he is Fed contractor who owns a fed consulting company with employees. I also told him if he gets covid I’m not taking him to the hospital. I think it is so selfish and ignorant not to get the vaccine, and especially with the fed mandate and employees who count on the company.[/quote]

This is OP, and thanks for your message.  I'm pretty surprised at the number of people who think this post is fake...I think a lot of people don't understand what it is like to be married to someone with this belief, and I figured that I'm not the only spouse of a Fed or a Fed contractor in this situation.  I completely agree with you about the unbelievable level of self-absorption involved in choosing not to get vaccinated.  However, my feelings don't really matter here because they are not changing anything for the better! But I think I'm not getting more helpful advice in this thread because readers that have experience that could be helpful may not be bothering to respond to a post they assume is a troll.  I can and will consult an attorney for legal advice, but I was hoping for something more practical. Anyway, I appreciate your sympathy.[/quote]

OP unfortunately there is no practical answer to mental illness. Your husband is part of a cult.

You have two options divorce which I would do in a heart beat because no way my kids live under the same roof with that garbage.
Or two you stay and don’t say another word and hope he eventually vaccinates.

He will lose his job and there is no lawsuit that will change that fact. There is no court in the land that will grant an extension or exception. This is a FACT

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First off, this is probably fake.  Second, OP is using any excuse to divorce.  He can easily get another job.  Not being vaccinated is not a mental illness.  If he loses his job, she could have to pay him child support and alimony even if she has full custody.[/quote]

Losing your cush government job over conspiracy theories and refusing to discuss it with your spouse absolutely sounds like mental illness to me. Your husband/wife must be REALLY understanding if they're cool with that.[/quote]

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