Reply to Would you be okay with your wife visiting her male best friend

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Would you be okay with your wife visiting her male best friend"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really don't get this all men are dogs (which is a premise I don't think is far-fetched) justification. Where is the wife's agency here? Do you really think all these best/close friend's are going to rape your wife in this scenario? If not, are the men going to be so tricky that your wife won't be able to control herself in light of his seduction? I don't think it is a great idea and I personally wouldn't put myself in that situation because humans have sexual urges and things can happen but it seems disingenuous to say I trust my wife but men are dogs.  [/quote]

Yeah, I think the men are dogs thing is just BS. My personal take on that it's just the men admitting that in that scenario they would cheat.[/quote]

I agree that a lot of this discussion doesn’t take into account the wife’s agency. Personally, I would not cheat under any circumstances. I’m not sure, though, that the “men are dogs” thing necessarily means that the DH would cheat but I do think it means they are a bit controlling and don’t fully trust their wife. I think it shows a certain level of insecurity. [/quote]

Yes, women and men have agency. The entire point of this thread is what her willingness to go on a trip alone with another man indicates about her agency. There is information contained in the fact that a person has the desire to go on a trip with the opposite sex without their spouse. And the information content is not good[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics