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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your values seem really misplaced.  I bet your kids would like happy parents who live together VS a divorced family with an unhappy mom (because you'll still be working this stressful job but you'll also be parenting alone).   You need therapy, not to mess up your kids because of your issues. [/quote]

NP. I think you are wrong here. I think she would be happier divorced not dealing with this resentment. She is unhappy in the marriage. I bet she would have a cloud lift if she divorced. The problem is though that their lifestyle would take a hit unless she has family help. She might have to pay alimony but maybe not. I did not get it and people are surprised. If both people work, unless the discrepancy is HUGE, there is usually no alimony.[/quote]

Sure. She would be happier without him. But she's still going to be working the same high stress job if she wants what she wants. Unless her plan is to get married to someone who makes enough for OP to take a lower paying job and is cool using his money to pay for his step kids houses and weddings [/quote]

It is easier to work a high-stress job when you are not seeing resentment in your house everyday. I went back to work for the sole purpose of getting a divorce. [/quote]

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