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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Me again- I had another idea for you:

- plan the second date so he can watch you in action.  Meaning - you are fit, so plan the date around whatever it is you do to stay fit.

Maybe thats hiking? Great date idea, with maybe a light picnic! (but go slow if he’s not up to your speed yet).

Is it running or biking?  Could you do it together?

maybe the gym?  Could you reserve treadmills or ellipticals side by side?

Really just any second date that breaks the mold of just going to a cafe, bar, or restaurant.

To pile on what the others said:  hold a lot more back; think of it as being more mysterious (yes - I know - it’s more games, but you can be yourself later on if it works out; the games are temporary).  Hugs, and good luck! [/quote]
I dated this guy once who I could beat at some carnival games.  It was in college, and I also got better grades than him. Of course, there were many things he was much better at, but I really think he found me intimidating.

I've beat my DH in a few things, and I can tell he doesn't like it when that happens. LOL

Op sounds like she is in great shape, so I wonder if she would outshine some of these guys in a setting where they could see her in action.

OP, you just need to find someone who loves doing stuff with their partners and who is secure in themselves.[/quote]

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