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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]“Really really into your own thing” coupled with your excessive focus on how great you are reads as self absorbed and arrogant [/quote]

+1  winner winner chicken dinner.[/quote]
NP.. IMO, based on what OP stated about how she seems to like the introverted guys, you are chasing the wrong type of guys.  Most of these types of guys don't want intense partners.

There is a bit of opposite attracts, but compatibility is  also important.

I once got set up with a guy by a friend. He was introverted, and found me "intense". I am assertive and love to travel.  But,  I am fairly introverted  when it comes to dating, and "guarded sexually".  I hardly dated.

What drew me to my DH was the love of travel and good food.  When I met DH, I didn't have much travel experience, but I knew I wanted to travel, and I met someone who loves to travel and experience new things.  He also wanted someone to travel with and try new foods.  We are both foodies.

That kind of compatibility is important.  If the guys that OP is meeting aren't really into the intense types of travel that OP likes, then they aren't going to see a future with her.

I know a guy who is introverted, and a very extroverted woman was into him. He found her too intense and loud, though he likes her as a person.

I'm not sure why OP would want to date anyone who doesn't want the type of lifestyle that she wants. That kind of relationship wouldn't last.  If you meet a guy who loves to do the things you do, I'm sure he'd be more into you.

Why not join travel/experience groups to meet new people?  [/quote]

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