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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t act like it’s some moral virtue to end a marriage before you cheat instead of after. You still broke your vows.

People suck. [/quote]

Trust me.  I'd rather have it end before knowing I had been boning him w.in hours of him having unprotected sex with someone else for years.  The pain and disgust and violation (literally it takes away your consent, you are violated and it feels like assault) when you find out you were not in a monogamous marriage.[/quote]

DP. You're right. When someone cheats, that person's spouse/partner ends up fundamentally sexually involved with every person with whom the cheater has sex. The idea of someone coming home from an AP hookup and then having sex with a committed spouse or partner is revolting. At the very [i]minimum[/i] there is the issue of disease (something rarely mentioned on the many threads here about cheating). Beyond that, there is the betrayal that goes far beyond sexual betrayal.[/quote]

+1,000

THIs one hundred times over. So traumatizing.

If you, like me, had sex about 4 times per week with STBX spouse. It’s so gross and violating…and to find they never used condoms.  There are no words.[/quote]

Agreed it’s way worse. But it’s still not great for the spouse to be like “I’m leaving you because I want to sleep with someone else. I just wanted to tell you beforehand.”[/quote]

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