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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I am not your ex. Stop projecting and take your anger out somewhere else.
Again, tell me EXACTLY what I should have done. The morally perfect thing, because you are so righteous

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Hi.  Read the posts in this thread.  Everyone is telling you what you should have done.

BTW - Any time now, you can tell me how long you pretended to be married after you decided to leave him.  My bet is about five years, based on your other posts.[/quote]

Honestly, it took a few years to be sure. Sometimes things were good enough that I thought I could power through it, especially not knowing if I’d ever meet anyone anyway. 
The tipping point was when I realized he would never ever see me as an equal partner in the marriage.

(Also, not that you’re asking, but I was not the kind of SAHM that drove a nice car and went to yoga. I was the kind wearing 8 year old Old Navy T shirts with spit up on my shoulder, and had eye bags and anemia and bad skin, could not afford yoga or classes, who felt guilty spending money on anything at all that was not groceries. Since you keep talking about “lifestyle and comfort” I think we should set the record straight. )

When I accepted that I’d be better off single forever than staying with him, that is when I knew I had to leave and actually told him.[/quote]

Sometimes we are better off divorced. I get that part, but everything after I don't agree with. I also don't believe you decided you were gay one day. [/quote]

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