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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a woman.  I don't understand why women or men get married if they aren't willing to have sex. Just remain committed.  Sex is really important.  I don't thi k demand work but reading this post made me feel sad.  OP you should not have been married. [/quote]

OP here. Maybe I’m misunderstanding your post….but I *love* sex. It’s my favorite thing to do. I can go all night long and still be ready for more in the morning.

But I want to have sex with people who are kind to me and who I like. I don’t just want a warm body, I want sex with someone I can be vulnerable and intimate with. My xH was not a kind person and so I didn’t want sex with him.[/quote]

I think this is a chicken and egg argument.  I think he probably is  unkind or not nice due to a lack of sex.  I get really grumpy when I don't have sex.  I notice my spouse and I are more amicable in general after relations.  If he treats you bad and you are having sex with him then that is worth divorcing. [/quote]

That’s BS. Do you treat your boss poorly when you’re not getting laid because you’re “grumpy”? Are you a jerk on a first date because you haven’t had sex with her yet? My guess is that you’re able to control yourself.

And no, having sex regularly did not help. Made it worse, because he knew he could be a dick and still get laid. [/quote]

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