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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who are all these PPs normalizing threatening divorce? No, it’s not ok and not normal. [/quote]
People in toxic abusive relationships.

People who are abusive.

People who grew up with parents/ family that treated each other this way and don't see anything wrong with it.

People who value having a man/ husband above all else.[/quote]

Threatening divorce is an attention getting statement.  It means I am hurting to the point where I want to change my life without you in it.  If he said this, he has been thing about it for a long time.  It's not normal and not ok for the relationship.  But it is honest.  It's a last clear shot to save things.  Perhaps they are too far gone already by the time you are saying it.  It's only abusive if it is a pattern over time.  Here is does not seem that way but rather the possible end point of the marriage.

For those that think it is per se abusive, please tell me how else you communicate that you are done and leaving?  I agree a pattern of this is abusive.  But I would have said this only once and been done with the relationship.[/quote]

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