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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Other girls who are also pretty and have good jobs keep getting their heart broken and either find low quality partners or wind up single."

[b]First off, most men don't care about your job, or your money.[/b] So stop leading with that. Men care first and foremost about your looks, if you're friendly and cooperative, and physically in shape. They want to be with women who smile, laugh and make their lives more peaceful instead of being another competitor. Women who treat them with basic civility and respect. If they want children, they are looking for a childless woman who shows signs of being a good, dedicated mother.

I know a lot of men who have left the dating scene because they cannot seem to find women who tick even half these boxes anymore.

These other women have been snapped up because they have tick all of these boxes, or at least most of them. So what are you doing wrong, OP, and how can you change it? Think about what men want. [/quote]

My exHusband certainly did. He had an income requirement for dating. A lot of men care about a woman's income if they are considering marriage.[/quote]

It depends.  Most men do not care.  If you have one that does that is a red flag that there could be issues.  Guys want fun, happy, smart, mother material and while looks are important, the range is extremely wide.[/quote]

IME most men DO care. I have known very few men in my life who truly didn’t. And they didn’t tend to think much about the long term, which is a big red flag. [/quote]

Depends on the guy.  Most type A high earners, doctors, lawyers really couldn't care less.  Now most end up marrying peers but not because they care what the women did -- it was because of where they met them -- mostly in school.[/quote]

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