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[quote=Anonymous]I think any major life change opens the door for a change in the relationship good or bad. Only you know your relationship dynamics to make a guess as to how your DH will react/change to this lifestyle change in your relationship. 
I will say that often times resentment builds up on both sides in situations like this. It does put a lot of burden on DH to provide for him, wife, baby and the future. He may care more about what you spend and how you spend it than he does now or if you were brining in money. Be prepared for critiques and questions that perhaps don't exist now.
You will be relying on him for money whether you like it or not. that may not feel great to you after a while and he may not agree on what amount you 'need' to use each week. Are you prepared to go back to work if it is not working out or will you dig in and stay in a bad situation for your relationship because you are trying to prove a point. 
You need to do what is best for your family now and in the future but to come here, ask for help and then say none of it applies to you tells me you don't really want to acknowledge that in all likelihood things will change. You want us to say to DO IT!!!! So you don't have to make the tough decision to stay home and can blame us when it goes south. [/quote]

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