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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^^ PP again, I just read one comment again above, about us probably not having had huge sparks to begin with.  Yes, nail on the head.  We were attracted to each other enough to have some sparks in the beginning, and there was strong emotion enough to want to marry each other.  We both were also at the point of wanting to start the married with children phase of our lives.  But there is no real chance to respark some huge, intense desire for each other because we never really had that.  Lots of comfortableness with each other but no true, out of this world fireworks enough to rekindle something over 20 years down the road.  That’s probably why we are at the point we are at now, able to start separating but still are friends and have affection for each other. [/quote]

Interesting perspective, thanks for sharing.

We are similar, but we decided on a DADT policy. So we can have the passionate sex with others but come home to the security of marriage. Seems less of a headache than divorce. In reality, there aren't that many couples that have the spark after 2 decades. That's just marriage.

I assume you are both financially successful, which makes divorcing a lot easier.[/quote]

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