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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People who are bored after 20 years or so, what do you think is gonna happen 20 years into your new relationship? I’m genuinely curious. The passion settles down for everyone. Living with someone and experiencing their every high and every low is draining, of course there is no spark anymore, so you just leave relationship after relationship as you get bored?[/quote]

I think you minimize divorce. Most people don't divorce because they are "bored"; most people divorce when it is not a good marriage. Some people do divorce because they outgrow each other. What do you care? I was married for 10 years. I will never remarry. I will be single for life. But if I meet someone I want to be with, I don't think I will be "bored." If it is truly empty, or not worth it, no reason to stay for the sake of staying. I am fine not living with another person. I am in my 40s. I doubt IF I was with someone for 20+ years at this point (unlikely, but if I did, I would not likely leave in my 60s. However, I am not remarrying. [/quote]

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