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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m the poster you responded to about why you aren’t getting married this week. Thank you, op.

I’d be with you if you were having a wedding in a church or wherever you expected people to attend, but a courthouse wedding won’t detract from your brother’s big day, not at all. 
Boys are different from girls, your brother may not really even notice you got married, he’ll be happy for you, but boys don’t think the way girls do “My sister ruined my graduation because she got married the week after!”.

My husband’s aunt who is in her 80’s had planned a June wedding.  Then she and her finance decided to get married in December, a good thing as they both got covid shortly after the wedding.  They were treated much better by medical staff as a legitimate married couple v. a boyfriend and girlfriend.

I’d be wondering if your boyfriend gave you what my husband calls a shut up ring, basically no intent of getting married but you give the ring so your girlfriend will shut up and more importantly keep putting out.

I wouldn’t wait, op. Waiting only means you guys are boyfriend and girlfriend. Engagement really doesn’t mean much especially if you want children There’s a reason the line from Hamilton “if you love this woman go get her” is so popular.  You have the desire and the legal right to marry and to do so this week.  Why aren’t you? [/quote]

We are in the process on negotiating on a prenup. He has a lawyer and he paid for mine. Also my dress is still being prepared because I wanted to lose more weight.

And I was the one who didn’t want a big wedding because to be honest I didn’t go to college so I don’t have a whole lot of friends so the turnout would be basically my family anyway. And it’s not so much that I’m stealing anybody’s thunder- my brother is across the country and he’s a Type A personality who wants to ace his finals regardless if it will matter in the future. Flying out will stress him out. [/quote]

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