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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I should add that I know someone who fits the description of PPs’ soon-to-be ex husbands.  He’s a nice guy, great job, in shape, great dad.  He and his wife split for the same reasons (lack of excitement), but he’s still good friends with her.  I feel sorry for the women he dates.  On the one hand, he has unrealistic expectations and expects the fireworks that were missing from his marriage.  On the other hand, he’s still in love with his ex wife, whom he regards as his best friend.  So that leaves any future girlfriend wife with the burden of having to be thrilling all the time to a man who is also somewhat emotionally unavailable to her.  [/quote]

I feel sorry for him. To carry the torch for someone who no longer wants to be married to you is pathetic.[/quote]

I’m the PP in the post above this one.  I think that’s the point.  Yes, we are emotionally available because our current spouse has become nothing more than a good friend and roommate.  There is no “in love” anymore or we’d still want to be married.  [/quote]

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