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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When women blame men for loss of their libido it's the same as men with ED blaming their wives.

It's physical, it's almost never their partners fault. [/quote]

The thing is, I don't think you see a lot of women sitting around getting mad at their partners for their drop in libido. I think most women are okay with the drop.

What happens is that their partners are upset by the drop in sex frequency, and that creates a problem that needs a solution. How do you solve that problem? Well, say the women, trying to be helpful, maybe we would be more interested in sex if you were more attentive and affectionate. And the men try and it doesn't change the woman's low libido. Maybe she puts a bit more effort into have sex more often. But it doesn't sustain itself.

But I don't think women start out unhappy and blaming their partners for their low libido, most of the time. I think it's fine and they turn their attention to other things, very often parenting because it offers them intimacy without sex, which is pretty much what they want at that stage.

They only become unhappy because sex is demanded of them and they don't feel like it, and being asked to have sex when you don't want to is a dynamic no woman enjoys. So it's different phenomenon than the man who blames his partner for his ED.[/quote]

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