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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell Dad fine, but he needs to sit down with you and son and tell son that he's leaving to move in with a "friend" or his girlfriend or what ever word he chooses and that he'll be visiting there.  I'd tell Dad he gets 50/50 custody.  Don't do like PP said and have him choose between his parents.  But, don't let Dad let out of being a parent and doing his share.[/quote]

OP again - He does not want 50/50 bc he has a demanding essential job, and AP lives far enough away that it makes weekday overnights a struggle. And of course, because he wants as much child-free time as possible with AP. [/quote]

Tough. He has a kid! He can’t force you to take more than fifty fifty.

If he only takes the kid eow, he needs to give you way more child support. Make sure you insist on that if you allow less than fifty fifty.[/quote]

Exactly. By not accepting 50/50 he is forcing op to accept more than 50/50, which is a whole lot of BS. OP sounds like a decent mom. She should not roll over (and I would say the same if she were the father). Why should mom be the only one constrained by parenting ESPECIALLY if he is leaving the marriage. Within marriage there was more ability to be flexible on the effort given at any given time. But not any more.[/quote]

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