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Reply to "Separated soon to be ex H is moving in with AP... DS has never met her"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell Dad fine, but he needs to sit down with you and son and tell son that he's leaving to move in with a "friend" or his girlfriend or what ever word he chooses and that he'll be visiting there. I'd tell Dad he gets 50/50 custody. Don't do like PP said and have him choose between his parents. But, don't let Dad let out of being a parent and doing his share.[/quote] OP again - He does not want 50/50 bc he has a demanding essential job, and AP lives far enough away that it makes weekday overnights a struggle. And of course, because he wants as much child-free time as possible with AP. [/quote] Tough. He has a kid! He can’t force you to take more than fifty fifty. If he only takes the kid eow, he needs to give you way more child support. Make sure you insist on that if you allow less than fifty fifty.[/quote] That's the whole point: he wants the kids once in a while overnight, without even singing a separation agreement with stipulated child support. How is that? [/quote] There are millions of lower and middle class families where parents abandon their children in ignorance and selfishness everyday. We all know of situations like this, even if a few degrees removed. Many American families are fractured and suffering, only to kick the tower down as soon as the “child” turns 18. That is when the easy part of the terabyte begins, if they’re lucky enough to have it. People have been marrying divorcing and cheating since the beginning of time. Every person isn’t scarred because of this. Look forward success stories and learn the traits that helped improve things in the long run. It is for you as much as the child. You are responsible for your response. YOU. No one else.[/quote]
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