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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell Dad fine, but he needs to sit down with you and son and tell son that he's leaving to move in with a "friend" or his girlfriend or what ever word he chooses and that he'll be visiting there.  I'd tell Dad he gets 50/50 custody.  Don't do like PP said and have him choose between his parents.  But, don't let Dad let out of being a parent and doing his share.[/quote]

OP again - He does not want 50/50 bc he has a demanding essential job, and AP lives far enough away that it makes weekday overnights a struggle. And of course, because he wants as much child-free time as possible with AP. [/quote]

Tough. He has a kid! He can’t force you to take more than fifty fifty.

If he only takes the kid eow, he needs to give you way more child support. Make sure you insist on that if you allow less than fifty fifty.[/quote]

That's the whole point: he wants the kids once in a while overnight, without even singing a separation agreement with stipulated child support. How is that? [/quote]

DP. What state are you in?
You don’t need a separation agreement to file for child support! Ever! File. Start the clock. It is for the child, not for you. Arrearages will only begin to the date of filing unless you agree otherwise. Dont bank on your marital history/equity and some false notion of your spouse doing **anything** for you. Expect the best, but prepare for the worst, and know how to defend yourself. Follow the 6 steps.

If you need to file for alimony, talk to an attorney. Anything else call up your public tax payer funded child support enforcement agency. It is a public service to help that child be cares for financially. They even provide paternity tests for the true slime balls.[/quote]

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