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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know what, Whitney, Heather and Meredith? It would have cost you nothing, and it would have taken you two seconds to say: "Jen, I hear you. I understand that being labeled with the words 'aggressive' and 'violent' are way more loaded and consequential then they are for me. I will try to find more productive ways to talk to you about your behavior and actions when I have a problem with you." Whitney especially calling her husband to say "oh she's bringing up the race stuff" was stupid. YEAH, using the word "aggressive" toward a woman of color is pretty loaded. Just calm down, listen, and find some room to have a better conversation about it. -White woman[/quote] She’s hiding behind race. Have you seen her behavior? It is absolutely 100% aggressive. She threatened to drown Whitney in a lake...I mean Whitney was supposed to come up with a nicer way to talk to Jen after that?? Whitney was calm. She HIT heather. No excuse for Jen’s behavior. [/quote] +1. Not ok with using the term 'aggressive' so freely with POC but I cannot think of a better word for Jen. If she doesn't like it, she shouldn't present herself that way.[/quote] This is absurd since when did the word aggressive become taboo. Give me a break she behaved aggressively therefore she’s aggressive. End of story. I don’t care if she’s brown black orange hot pink or white aggressive is aggressive in any color[/quote] This. Jen’s trying to change her story to make herself sympathetic. She tried raising ptsd. She tried raising her race. Her black husband was holding her as she sobbed and her husband was thinking WTF are you saying?! Sure, those labels can be derogatory and stereotypical, but in this case that’s not how the words were used. They were used as Webster intended them. “Aggressive” wasn’t used freely until she became aggressive. She points fingers, screams, yells, insults, sobs, loses control, has upset every cast member and her husband as a result of her actions. [/quote]
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