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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You will be the in-law from hell if you start saying you want to add more guests (even if offering to pay). Don’t ruin your child’s future life. Apologize to your friends for YOUR mistake and then learn to take a back seat. [/quote]

No.  You cannot add to the guest list.  Just tell ALL couples you are not sure if they will be invited and you made a mistake.  [/quote]

Oh GOOD GRIEF. For some reason people on DCUM think that brides and grooms are made of glass or something. Just have a conversation with your son. You don't have to say "I already invited people." Just say, "I was thinking about which 5 couples we could invite, and there are really 7 couples who we'd like to include. Would it be possible to have 4 more people?" I mean, FFS. Is it really such a huge, dramatic imposition to have a conversation with one's own child? If he says no, then take no for an answer and don't bring it up again. But maybe the answer will be yes, who knows. And then problem solved.

I really don't understand how people who are in a family cannot just have a simple conversation. [/quote]

Dp. Then you should ask that very question to the op.  She is still wrong though to have told the couples before she talked yo her son and DIL.[/quote]

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