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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn’t read all the replies, just wanted to say this: you said you’re in a good place now. Understandably this churns up some sadness from what she and the other friends did to you, but if you can get past that and be a friend to her, nothing says you have a hold a grudge. Grudges hurt the holder usually more than the person who is focus of the grudge. Beyond that, you know she’s in pain. You’re not obligated to be supportive, but if you cared about her, and could still care about her, why not? There’s so much shit in the world. Everyone is damaged. If you’re the bigger person, [b]no reason not to show your friend some love.[/b][/quote] This is a fundamentally flawed premise -- shunner-of-yesteryear is by definition not a friend. She is not a stranger, either. She is someone who chose, for whatever reason, to be hurtful in the past. [/quote]
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