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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As I told her - she doesn’t get to toss it - and run-   I’m sorry it happened, But her dropping something like that -in a text - after I said I would be taking space -is also problematic given the history of manipulation that has occurred between us...

I also told her the last thing I wanted to do was shut down a conversation but it was too painful to be so resented. Which I said and then she sent that text- what???[/quote]

You're not reallly in any place to tell her, a victim of molestation, what she gets to do or not do.  Have some compassion for your sister.  That you can see her write something like that and criticize her mode of delivery rather than take in the substance and deal with that is telling about the role you have played in the relationship and why she feels she doesn't have a good bond with you, and might not want to deal with telling you in person.  In short, try to be a better sister.  That means work on yourself rather than criticizing your sis (especially over stuff she could not control, and the effects it had on her).[/quote]

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