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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^overwhelmingly in favor of telling.

The only circumstance suggesting not to tell was if the kids had no idea and you weren’t divorcing.

If they have suspicion, if family knows and it could slip out, if you already have g/friend, b/friend, if it was with a person they know...

Re-read BOTH articles and not with a self-serving view of not having to face people knowing what you did.[/quote]

No, not overwhelmingly in favor of telling. You’re just plain wrong. Also, it’s the opinion on one therapist. Hardly the gospel.

Yeah, telling children their mother is a horrible person will surely make the divorce easier for everyone. I’m starting to believe you were cheated on and chose to tell your children. That’s horrible in my opinion.  [/quote]

NOBODY (NOT EITHER ARTICLE EITHER) is saying tell the kids mom is a horrible person.  They do, however, say that kids should be told what mom did in many circumstances/situations.   I guess by what you have written you think that people that cheat are horrible people so want to hide your actions.
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