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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP is naive in suggesting even in the slightest that cheating is caused by the non-cheating spouse.  Many people manage to not have affairs even in unhappy, unshaven marriages.[/quote]
Yet another attempt to ascribe blame and some moralistic drama while completely missing the main point. [b]Men who are sexually satisfied at home very rarely go elsewhere. Men who are NOT sexually satisfied at home usually go elsewhere.[/b] That's a pure statement of fact without any assignment of blame or moral judgement.[/quote]

Actually there is blame and judgment in it, and it sounds like this:

It is your job to sexually satisfy the man. If he's not sexually satisfied at home, it is your fault.

This completely overlooks the possibility that the husband may no longer find his wife satisfying, as willing as she might be.  Boredom sets in.  The want of variety sets in.  And may I remind you - so many cheated-on wives posting here have been having regular sex with their husbands up until the date of discovery. What is wrong with them? nothing.  It just may be more than a person is able to deliver.  I mean if your husband wants something different from you, there's not much you can do about it.[/quote]

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