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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Well we have a nice, frugal life making way less than you with two kids, so... so just let her figure it out. You don’t need to make more money. She could go part time. It’s your expenses you need to reconsider. [/quote] Unfortunately, just "letting the spouse figure it out" is a recipe for disaster, imo. Resentment will continue to grow. OP's DW's career is not sustainable - trust me. I came from something similar. Your DW will soon be desperate to escape her day to day and this can manifest itself into a PA. My advice, have a serious conversation about retirement. You all have a lot of debt. Get the spreadsheet out, put your brain to use with an Excel retirement planner and start playing with numbers.[/quote]
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