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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like a smart decision. I'd never move in with someone after 6 months (barring something crazy). Sharing finances that early in a relationship is nuts.

Honestly if this makes you run, do her a favor, and run. [/quote]

OP here. I understand why she said no. I’m just now worried about how serious she is about the relationship. We talked about moving in soon and she was for it. Then she said no. I don’t want to invest my time in a relationship if it’s just nothing more than a distraction for her. [/quote]

I don’t think you sound serious at all. You don’t seem to have put any thought or consideration into your relationship. It’s only been 6 months. That’s not very long at all. How many times have you sat down and reviewed your finances together? How many times have you discussed your future goals or written them down so they are not vague someday ideas?  Starting a family? What will you do if you face infertility? And so on..

You sound like someone who equates playing house as a serious relationship. Spend your time getting to know each other better. Now is the perfect time.[/quote]

OP, PP gave you great advice. Please take it if you are serious about marriage rather than playing games. [/quote]

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