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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In many cultures someone with kids already is bad news.  It's baggage.  Why have it when there are hundreds of millions of single people available?  This is not to disrespect you.  But, I would not want my kids to marry someone who was divorced with kids already.  No thanks.  Find someone else.  Life is hard already, why add more drama if you don't NEED to?[/quote]

OP here: I am well aware of this (this is the same for my family)...which is why I asked several times at the start if my status was going to be a problem...I said you can date anyone and not someone with baggage...he said he still wanted to see only me and it did not matter. He also said he was beyond looking to marry and have kids and that family pressure was over and it was dealt with. That is why I am surprised he mentioned me at all. If there was not going to be marriage and kids, and family pressure was over, there was no reason to mention me because obviously, it is just going to end it. He said he did not want to get married to anyone multiple times so I thought we were on the same page. I really do not think he should have pursued me. I was completely upfront about my status and concerns. I did not my emotional guard down until very recently...and this happened shortly thereafter. [/quote]

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