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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think there is too much here dragging things down.

He didn't just confide in another person, he forwarded emails that are private, detailing issues with your sex life. That, to me, is a big boundary violation.

Secondly, he seems unable or unwilling to engage with you on these, but is willing to forge (needing to forge?) an emotional connection with his friend.

He cheated on you. With a man. and had flirtations with other men.  You say that he said he's "done" with that, but I really, truly dont think married straight men cheat on their wives with another man once and they're over it. It doesn't really work that way. I think this is a bigger issue and he could be very afraid of figuring it out and what it means for the picture of his life, but I wonder if this is not part of the issue (esp bedroom issues).

also, he cheated on you! This is big. You mention that you have 10 things every session to talk about in therapy--yikes.

I really think there is so much going against this marriage. What is going for it? and how intimate--emotionally, physically--are you two, really, if you're conducting relationship talks by email? [/quote]

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