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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP is a bigger B$itch[/quote]

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Why? This woman isn’t a friend or family member. Why would she think that someone who happened to buy a house near hers would keep her secrets? That’s her mistake. [/quote]

Because it’s none of her business. She she could cause an acrimonious divorce that might never happen if she keeps her mouth shut. Because it’s not her business because she could damage children worse finding out like this and because he might already know and they might even have an open marriage. Maybe the affair is the only thing keeping the marriage together and maybe they would be financially devastated in a divorce which would hurt everybody. People shouldn’t have affairs but some people do and it’s none of anybody else’s business to get involved. No one really knows what goes on in a marriage behind closed doors. No one should interfere and anybody else’s family or anybody else’s business. Honestly think people who get involved with other people‘s marriages are worse than people who cheat. [/quote]

Shut up cheater.  I 100% would have liked to know that my STBX was having unprotected sex with a whore he met on the Internet. And all the other risks that are involved with having an affair with somebody also in a committed marriage.  And, no, only a tiny minority are actually in open marriages.  That’s a BS excuse and it’s something cheaters lie about anyways.

If you cheat, you are setting your family up for this type of explosive damage.

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I am not a cheater. I am divorced. But I can completely understand how cheating becomes an option when people don’t want to get a divorce and often times that is because of the financial fall out. If you’ve never been in a truly miserable marriage you have absolutely no idea what people go through in deciding how they going to go on some people can actually get a divorce and go through with it and some people just don’t have the courage and they end up cheating as a way to get their needs met and not have harm done to kids and finances. Not all people can divorce amicably; and if you’re with a spouse who would be totally vicious and terrible and be a terrible coparent I can totally see how somebody would choose to cheat rather than divorce. If you’ve never been in this situation of being in a terrible marriage where there are no options and maybe perhaps you haven’t had sex in 2, 3, 4, 5 or more years you have no reason to judge. Stay out of it. A child could go through an acrimonious divorce if cheating is revealed went that is more destroying than an amicable divorce or cheating is not revealed or a marriage where an affair never discovered. The outside party should never blow up peoples lives. [/quote]

I hate to burst your bubble, but many men in happy marriages still cheat in midlife.  They have zero desire to divorce and often are still having sex with their wives.  It’s supposed to be a midlife distraction-just sex.  34% only cite an unhappy marriage.  Women cheaters on the other hand- 65% are unhappy in their marriage.

If my husband cheated- I’d want to know—whether he was happy or unhappy.  You never put somebody else’s health in danger and you don’t lie and deceive.  There are zero excuses.  Quit doing mental gymnastics to justify getting boned.[/quote]

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