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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, so really this sounds all about housework

How much housework are you doing? Stop. Besides taking out the trash, disposing of dirty diapers and baby's laundry ... what are you doing?? Stop.

You are going to have to lower your standards greatly
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OP here. I do it all and can’t really stop because things needs to get done.

I cook all of our meals, wash bottles/pump parts, do a quick daily cleaning of all areas, pay the bills, [b]do all the laundry ( including his), [/b]restock nursery, groceries, and order stuff for the house. He does take out the trash but that’s it. [/quote]

STOP! Stop doing his laundry. This is insane. And on the weekends, you can order takeout. Buy paper plates and plastic forks. Just stop doing things. You say you guys are doing okay financially, so now is the time to spend on these small things that make life a little easier.

And definitely schedule a zoom marital therapy. Your husband is digging in his heels hard that nothing house related is his responsibility. You need to deal with this ASAP — it’s only going to get harder. [/quote]

+1, OP stop catering to him. He’s not a baby and he’s clearly becoming too reliant on your labor.[/quote]

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