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[quote]... there's a difference between an agenda which may differ from the parents', and an agenda which is somehow secretive and inherently unfair, or that is favoring other children over yours. [/quote]

I agree wholeheartedly with these two comments.  I especially agree with the last point about how "differing agendas" doesn't mean unfair or favoring other children over yours.  It's precisely the attitude of "someone's getting more favorable treatment than I am!" that I find objectionable in many of the extreme claims from page 1 of this thread. [/quote]

I think "differing agendas" could actually mean "unfair," although I'm still thinking this over.  Think about the examples earlier in the thread from somebody (not me) about the 4 corporate lawyers' daughters who have similar GPAs and sports.  The school will promote 1 or 2 of these girls, and they will probably select which to promote based on the parents' expected contribution to the next school.

Is this fair, or not, if the girls themselves are identical?  Maybe it is fair, if the ability to volunteer/donate/not be PITA is an attribute that the family as a whole brings to the next school.  But then again, the ability to donate/volunteer is often linked to income and having a SAHM.  Also, from the point of view of these identical girls, it's not fair.

(And please point us to where somebody posted, "somebody's getting more favorable treatment than I am!"  This sort of distortion isn't helpful to the discussion.)[/quote]

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