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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would never write this to anyone but I've thought this before. I've also said it outloud to my husband. I don't have the bandwidth for new relationships. I can barely keep up with the ones I have. I say respond with "I get it. Have a safe holiday." Don't reach out anymore. The kids can likely remain friends but I wouldn't plan playdates. She likely enjoys the fact that the kids play but doesn't need new people in her own social circle.[/quote] If this were a man in a relationship we’d call him a gaslighting a**hole. [/quote] I love that word. I had to look up where it came from, an old movie. Every time I can't find something I ask DW out loud "are you gaslighting me again?" "Stop gaslighting me!" "I feel so gaslit." Then of course the item is just where I left it. Good thing I'm joking and she knows it. She's looking for her purse....I say "I have no idea. Maybe I hid it and am gaslighting you?" "look under the couch, if its too dark, try some gas light". [/quote]
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