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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]well, I'm a SAHM and my DH works full time. He does quite a bit around the house (he's the cook, meal planner, shopper) and takes care of most stuff outside the house too. I'm happy to stay on top of the kids' school work, manage the social stuff (even with the pandemic i organize video get-togethers and socially distanced visits with friends). it all works out as we have a nice balance. and I love to get my DH's shaft 3-4 times a week.[/quote] He is the sole breadwinner AND does the majority on the home front. You do very little in comparison--social planner and watch kids do work (which by late elementary school they should be solely working on their own). Sounds like he's getting the shaft 7 days a week :lol: [/quote] NP here. I don't think so. I feel the SAHM poster must be making her DH feel very valued and loved so that he is ready to do all of this for her. Obviously, she is high libido and it seems so is he. But, in the end, I am sure he is pretty happy about how the house is being run, how the kids are doing and how all the social obligations are met that he finds her contribution worthwhile. I am sure he is looking how hard other families have it and feeling thankful for what he has. The fact that he wants to be intimate with his wife 3-4 times a week tells me that he is happy to be her DH and that she is very physically attractive to him. Yes, men will be the sole breadwinner and do a lot on the home front if they feel that the woman is worth it. Otherwise, men want the below average women to pay their half for the pleasure of being married and having a family. And these guys are not even thankful for what their wife earns and do nothing to help them on the home front. How many times we hear of men not finding their wives attractive and having APs, hmmm?[/quote] Lady, my husband had sex with me 3-4 times per week and had a constant hard on—always telling me how hot I was and how good I looked in yoga pants...and he had an AP at the same time. Just stop.[/quote]
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