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[quote=Anonymous]Rape has existed for as long as we have Been on earth. Kings rape , janitors and wallmart workers rape. The best of us and the worst of us have raped. My husband recently raped someone  and you know what surprised me more than any other emotion that came up at the time?

[i]It wasn't about me.[/i] He was going through something and acting out by the way of raping was his maladjusted way of dealing with his demons.  Of course the thought of it hurts me. But he is back and in the marriage. I know he never stopped loving me and I am it for him.

I imagine its true for situations surrounding many rapes

I stayed. It is not a popular decision. People think it has something to do with my lack of respect for myself. Maybe? But I think I genuinely don't think his poor choices reflect on me. We are working it out.

Is it not possible to entertain the thought that our preoccupation with having extreme standards of never raping ...unrealistic?

We are imperfect after all.[/quote]

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