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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the men who Glass was discussing, who say they are happy but do not turn down any option for extramarital sex (and do this early in the marriage) are very different from involved, married fathers in midlife who have 15 years or more of monogamy behind them and then have an affair. I would argue that the first is not likely capable of monogamy. A man who has been faithful for many years, in the big picture, may actually be pretty good at monogamy. It's gut wrenching, but these are not the same kinds of men. .[/quote] You misread. That’s exactly what she said: infidelity early in a marriage is a bad sign. She says exactly what you just said. A spouse that cheats for the first time after 15-20 years is very different than a guy in year 1-3 cheating.[/quote] Read her book. I quoted her out of context, excerpts.[/quote]
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