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The part that jumped out at me in the bolded paragraph was definitely the last sentence.  If you’re a guy and you enjoy sex, marriage may not be the right institution for you.  Keep dating, be the new/exciting guy - don’t be the guy who’s devoted their life to a person.[/quote]

The point isn't to always be the exciting new guy. The point is to provide a safe and attractive context so your partner wants to have sex with you. Despite what the MRA sites tell you, most women don't need new partners to want sex. [b]We just need partners that don't suck. [/b]

If you aren't interested in that, then yes, don't get married. But be honest with yourself - that you don't like doing any actual work in a relationship and just want women to cater to your needs with no expectation of reciprocity. [/quote]

This is undoubtedly true. But this also seems to suggest that women who don't want to have sex frequently, in some way have a problem, even if the problem is a DH who sucks. But maybe some women just don't want to have sex.

I was chatting with an ex  (who is currently single) who said she hadn't had sex in 7 years and did not miss it. She seemed happy otherwise. [/quote]

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