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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG I know it is a huge liability issue, but again, the freaking car would be insured!!!!!!!!!
I’m not driving around with a car without insurance!!!!
Him being 38 I was assuming he’s old enough to understand what’s going on and to do some research, call his insurance and ask what’s going on. Then he could make a decision. After asking him few times and he agreeing to it even a week before I moved in, I assumed he was clear on all the risks. 
I now realized that he didn’t even put any effort into it, never called the insurance for a quote, nothing. I know bc I asked him.
That’s why I’m even more mad. He should have figured it out BEFORE I moved in and tell me sorry I can’t do it. I gave him the option to say NO but BEFORE I move in. Otherwise I would have waited a few months to get my license and then move in with him, as my friend has been helping me out. 
I feel deceived by this. On top of that he doesn’t talk to me about it and instead his mom tells me to get myself the license, I feel totally embarrassed and mad!!!!! He should have said it to me, I wouldn’t have been mad. I told him that!!!
But dragging me into his house and then letting me hang like that was very messed up.
I have no family here, I had no job and $0 income for 16 weeks!!!!! I just got a job with very good money and I didn’t want to miss out, it’s an emergency situation 
I mean he can’t help me out for a month or two?
If you guys on here lived with your bf/gf, and your car breaks down for 3 weeks, your bf/gf won’t help you out by driving you around or borrowing your car? What will you do? Just say too bad figure it out yourself 
I mean come on 
Nothings illegal here and no, I’m not looking for a easy green card. 
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Moving in was contingent on him putting effort into something that could not be done?

And you are ready to break up over this?

How will your life be improved if you do?
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