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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here are the reasons I left (I am a woman):

1. Disrespect
2. Not being consulted or considered in major life decisions
3. Emotional abuse
4. No love or affection and sexlessness for YEARS (most of the marriage)

Another reason to go is mental illness (not my issue but that is a reason to leave)

I personally think the things I mentioned are worse than cheating. If it was just cheating, I could stay. But not the four items I mentioned--those are divorce worthy, especially combined.
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Looks like we were married to the same man. Plus mj in my case.[/quote]

To the pp you quoted:  cheating IS all of the first 3.

It is completely disrespectful to run around and lie behind your partner’s back, have lunch or coffee out in the open with AP, spend an overnight.  It doesn’t get more disrespectful than lying about where you are going when you are going to f@ck somebody else.

Not being consulted on a major decision? How about sexually opening the marriage to others.  That’s a major decision to stray from the monogamy you both pledged.  Probably THE MOST major decision in a marriage.

Emotional abuse?  How about the gaslighting that accompanies every affair.  Making you question your sanity with things that don’t quite add up when confronted.

Delusional.  Some of you are truly delusional.

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