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Reply to "If Affair was in the past, do you disclose?"
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[quote=Anonymous]If it doesn’t happen to you, it’s no big deal. Unless you have experienced the absolute horrifying pain of discovering an affair and being lied to for years, you cannot comment. Affairs get discovered after they are over quite often. A lot of times the betrayed spouse will tell the AP’s spouse. It is not always at the time of discovery, but often months or even a year later after extensive therapy. If somebody else tells your spouse, it’s game over. Get yourself in therapy. Work on bringing this up so you can move to having a marriage not riddled with deceit and secrecy. Until you tear the walls down, your marriage will never be a good one. You can’t rebuild on a lie.[/quote]
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