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[quote=Anonymous]The therapeutic community has huge financial gain in outing everything. More counseling=more compensation. We had a situation in my town in which a long time married pastor in my town had had an affair with a married woman like 20 years prior in another state. The former affair partner was told by a counselor to out the pastor and inform the church. There was no upside to disclosing this information. The pastor had a long term happy marriage. He had kids in high school. He was doing good things in the community and was one of the better pastor's the church had had. This woman's disclosure tore apart the congregation. He ended up losing his job over this. Again, it was from an act twenty years prior in another state. Most of the congregation thought he should be able to keep his job. Even my 80 year old neighbors who attended the church thought he should keep the job.[/quote]
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