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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hello, I desperately need advice please! I am in a drawn out and difficult negotiation with a person over an important matter. I have an upper hand if in the financial aspect, but he has influence over something I hold near and dear and therefore my emotional state too. Should I compromise on money but hopefully keep something I treasure untouched, or should I try to get the max and be confident I get to keep what I cherish too? [/quote] You hold the key to obtaining security in both matters. You must look forward. If you cannot trust this person to play fair (and my sense is you can't), relinquishing the financial situation can have a negative effect on your ability to obtain the other outcome. It is often not so simple as to give what they want when dealing with manipulative or abusive individuals, though in some cases it does work. Any time we allow the actions of another to determine our emotional state, we are giving our power away. This is exactly why this person behaves as they do. Take your power back, tend to your emotions inwardly and all that you desire will be yours. You know what you want and what is right for you to do, bring loving kindness to the parts of you that are scared or feeling insecure and trust that though it may take some time, everything will unfold exactly as it needs to. If you do not have a lawyer I would suggest consulting with one, and if you do, consulting with another may also be of help in solidifying your resolve to do what is best for yourself, trusting that any needed outcomes will fall into place. - the spirit reader[/quote]
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