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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you tell her you love her? Do you make her feel wanted? If these things aren't possible, then divorce her, because it's likely you're making her feel worse about herself because you're not showing love. Believe me, she knows she's fat, and she would much rather not be. But stress and depression and feeling unwanted likely are the causes. Good luck.[/quote] It's not possible to fake desire where none exists. Envisage forty pounds of fat. Actually visualize it. It cannot look attractive and I won't call a man shallow for refusing to like it. I've gained 22 pounds after 3 kids. There may be very good reasons for it but I don't kid myself that it looks attractive on me. It doesn't. I look at myself naked in the mirror every morning and I don't lie to myself that what I see is an attractive body. I would look 100% better with these pounds off. OP's wife would surely look better with her 40 off. [/quote]
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