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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I pretended.
But in all honesty I'm not over my ap. I'm not into this marriage, and we'd probably be better off divorced (from a love standpoint). But, we are good parents, get along OK (unless he realizes I really don't like him), and have regular sex. So. That. I'm just existing for now.

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I'd rather be married to you than my wife who apparently loves me but doesn't want to have sex.  Your arrangement doesn't sound that bad.[/quote]

I aim for 1-2x a week to keep each of us satisfied. Sorry about your wife. I do love DH to some extent. I just am definitely not in love with him.[/quote]

The thing is if you ended up with the AP it wouldn't work. You would have to pay bills together, and he wouldn't like your child like you think. I see it with people in their 50's with the grand-kids.  Divorce is often unavoidable, but it does mess up the family unit. I guess it depends on how much one values their kids. fyi I know many couples and most 2nd marriages are worse. Steps, halves, exes, ex-inlaws and the whole 9 yards destroys those relationships. Holidays are complicated with mixed families you don't want to spend time with. [/quote]

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