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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Absolutely wasn't snooping but I don't car to convince the haters otherwise.

Yes the notes are accurate but I'm allowed to live in my house too. I'm not his guest. Yes, I will occasionally be messy and yes my stuff will sit on the dining room table for a week while I'm working 8-6, raising three kids and getting them to and from sports/events. That's life.

My instinct is to call him out on his little notes. I find it very... unmasculine[/quote]

OP it's weird that its's your DH, but I did something kind of like that with a problem roommate. I was always cleaning up after her and finally decided nope, not going to, and suggested she find a place to live within x months (I knew she had financial problems, but she wasn't deling with them). It basically kept me from losing my s***. I did the same when DH had a drinking problem. In a way, keeping a record enabled me to avoid acting on the problem until I was prepared to do so.

I'd say there's an element of avoidance in the behavior. Or, maybe he's planning to write a screenplay or a novel?

I'd also consider the possibility others suggested, that he feels like he's the one being gaslighted.

Regardlesss either he has a weird but harmless personality fetish (also a possibility) or there's some kind of problem. [/quote]

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